What Man Expect from his Wife, in which I will tell the men needs in their life and how to make your man happy and make good relationship each other. There are definite things that a man wants and expects from his wife and those things are universal. every single man in this world wants those things. this is women’s job as his wife to full fill his needs and make him feel happy and loved.
Do you want to know how?
As a wife all needs to do is she has to understand the way of her husband’s notions and feelings like how HE understands the things, His way of talking, when and how he becomes happy and sad, how he reacts when somethings is wrong. If a woman understands these all these things she will have a grip of her husband’s gestures.
Making someone happy and sad or changing one’s mood is a quality of arts. it is only possible when you will have a quality of telepathy, (means a quality of understanding other’s feeling or knowing what’s going in one’s mind) and it evaluates over the time, if you have this you can control a person and either make him happy, loved or sad despaired.
In the initial stage of married couple. wife needs to understand her husband if she wants him on the same page. she needs to really care for him and show love in a way he never has been cared or loved before by anyone else. if you do all these things for him he will definitely love you for a life. if you full fill all his needs he will not go with others. he will come to you to get get those needs because you really love him.
1. Respect & Love
In this generation everyone wants mostly two things. first is RESPECT and second one is LOVE.
Women wan to be respected, but love matters more. but if we talk about man there is another dimension of desire. A man would like rather to be respected than love, in fact a man who is respected thinks I am loved. 🙂
There can many ways to show your husband that you really respect in him. in someway relationship is broken when you ask your partner for an opinion on something, but you have already made the decision in your mind. it effects the relationship.
if you really want to give respect to your husband. you should ask his opinion on something and he whatever advices do it efficiently.
showing him that you value his opinions he will feel respected and in return he brings you love in the many forms.
There is another way to make love and respect with your partner by compliment. if you say good things about your husband on front of him it will not be very efficient, but if you admires him to others, he will take it as compliment and it will help him to see how much you love and respect him.
2. SHOW HAVE A PHYSICAL DESIRE
Sex makes relationship good It will not surprise you that the men are how intimated for the physical love. Have you ever have thought on it?
Mostly all the men think sex is love. when you are having sex with your partner, he finds it as a LOVE.
When a woman avoids sex with her partner he gets disrespected and feeling disappointed. he starts finding another way to make love and after sometimes or some days there is gap found in your relationship.
It is the most important thing that there should be a torrid love between couple to detain the relationship. apart from all these things there is also another dimension (spiritual way) beyond of physical intimacy to keep your relation strong. we will discuss it later.
3.Make Trust
“Trust is the foundation of all human connection”
Without trust you cannot uphold your relationship. as a wife you have to be loyal to your partner if you want to keep your relationship on and show or tell your husband that how much you trust in him.
In marriage life honesty is so important you cannot build a strong relationship on half trust and half lies. so it is most important to be honest at all the times.
When you get married and will be enjoying your married life, sometimes your neighbor or colleges will feel jealous to you, they will deliver the unwanted information or some pity gossip to your husband then your husband will start being annoyed and worried himself because he really don’t to doubt at you or lose you. it is the most weak point in every relationship where your partner becomes confused and really want to get over on it and mostly relationship are broken on this stage because having doubt is the most dangerous thing people ever face. It is your duty to make your partner clear about those lies and gossips and help him to get over on it.
If your husband makes mistakes that breaks your trust then it’s good idea to rebuild that foundation but in this case both you need to work on rebuilding it together and make a example for others.
4. Say Sorry!
Sorry is a beautiful word that everyone wants to hear. Sorry is the word which saves relationships most of the time.
If we talk about women and men, women think that they are always be right but in men they have more tendency to say sorry than women.
As a wife if you make mistakes, it’s as simple as that you need to apologies if you want to sustain your relationships. but if you show you arrogant and pride instead of saying sorry it will be very annoying and frustrating for your partner and if it continues for long time your relationship with you partner might be broken.
If you really love your partner and don’t want to lose him, sometimes you will need to accept those mistakes which are not done by you but your partner, you will also have to be sorry in that situation to save your existence of your relationship.
You will not let your pride and arrogance to get in your beautiful relationship, be down to the earth ask for forgiveness and get over on it.
5. Be with Your Partner in Every Situation:
People face ups and downs in their lives; it may be a financial problem, a career problem, mentally disturbed, or others. It is your duty as a wife when your partner goes through all these problems; you will have to stand by him no matter what. Any relationship, either a friendship or between husband and wife, shows its color when the time is tough.
If you stand by your partner in his tough time, your relationship will endure for a long time. Sometime your partner will be messed with something and will find no way to get over it and will lose his hope. You tell him I am with you and show your love; support him with great effort; then he will get some positive vibes and boost himself again, and for sure he will find a way to resolve those particular problems.
Conclusion:
These are the things that you can work on it to improve your relationship and help your partner to feel truly valued and loved. Men need love just like women do, but they show it in different way.
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